They Cheer for You—Until You Outshine Them

They Cheer for You—Until You Outshine Them

 In this world there are many types of people around us. Some are very good to us and some are not so good. Many factors affect the people’s behavior towards us. Sometimes our close ones are jealous of us while outsiders encourage us. This world is full of different minded people. Everyone is struggling their own fight. Everyone is fighting for success in life. Someone’s dreams come true while someone’s does not. Some people work less and get much better result while some people work really hard and do not get the desired result as they expected. This creates jealousy among the humans and that’s natural. In this competitive world if you want support and help from others then it’s very rare.

                There is a very harsh reality of human nature. Everyone wants to see you doing better, but not better than them. This is due to today’s competition on social media to show off others. Everyone is afraid of others success and achievement. Many individuals support others success only to a certain extent. When you are struggling and or making gradual progress , people may encourage and uplift you. However, once your success surpasses theirs, envy, insecurity or competition can emerge. Even if someone wants to help others but the showing off society never let him do so

                This behavior comes from comparison and ego. Some people in our society measure their own worth based on how they are ahead of others. If you are remaining below their level, they are happy and feel secure. If by chance you rise above their standard, it triggers their feeling of insecurity and inferior complex. Instead of celebrating your growth, They may try to pull you down and even they may become your enemy without any reason. Their inner insecurity and jealousy may distance themselves from you or even try to hinder your progress. So you should be alert and protect yourself from such kind of people. 

              There are many true supporters in this world. Nobody can achieve huge success without any support. Support may be big or small, every support has their own value towards your success. True supporters celebrate your success regardless of how it compares to theirs. They are very rare people and very hard to find. If you have such people around you then keep them close to your heart. There people will uplift you towards your goal. They understand that someone else’s victory doesn’t take away their own potential. Unfortunately, not everyone thinks this way now a days.

            You should be very careful at your journey towards success. You should be aware of who truly supports you and who only does so when it is convenient. Many people come to your life during the journey towards success to distract you and demotivate you. Success often reveals people’s true colors and it’s important to surround yourself with those who genuinely wish to see you thrive. 

 

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