If you ask anybody what is the secret to success, he will say hard work. But it’s not the right answer. Hard work comes second, first comes the vision or you can say goal. If you do not have a goal what will you work for. If you have no goal you will drift around and never end up any where. For example you go to the railway station and ask for the ticket, you will be asked your destination. If you say i don’t know what will happen. Like that in life you must have a goal which is your destination.
Majority of people do not know where they are going. They live life aimless and do what ever they get job, business etc. That’s why 75% people hate their job. Majority of people don’t like what they are doing. Because they have no goal in life and what they are doing are just aimless drift. It’s a job for them but no fun. They never enjoy what they do. Life becomes very miserable and then that person says life sucks. But in reality life is beautiful for them who has a vision in life.
When you have a goal and vision, everything becomes easy. You will find your way easily. New roads will be open for your goal. While working there will be smile on your face because you are working for a goal. Every step you take make you closer accomplishing your goal to make your goal journey reality. You will work hard tireless with more energy and enthusiasm because your goal will drive you forward. Visualizing your goal and going after it makes fun.
If you want success in life never listen to nay-sayers. Because they will say all the negatives to demotivate you. They will say that’s impossible, it can’t be done. If you face such negative people say to yourself i can do it, say YES to their every NO to yourself. It always seems impossible until it is done. Say to yourself if it is not done before it is perfectly fine for me. I am going to make this happen. Never change your goal listening to the negative looser. Only change the plan and strategy but never the goal as every tree changes leaves but never the root.
Everybody says there should be a back up plan or plan B. But I must say you must not have a plan B. There are many doubters, haters who say you can’t do it, it is impossible and all that. In this situation it will be very dangerous if in your mind you will think, if my plan does not work i have a back up plan. If you are thinking about plan B, you are taking energy from plan A. Remember performance becomes better and accurate if there is no safety net. Plan B is that safety net which says if I fail I will be safe. That’s not good and it will decrease your performance. People perform better when they have no plan B.
People think about plan B because they worry about failing. If you have worry of failing in mind, you can not perform the way you should. Don’t afraid to fail. There is nothing wrong with failing. You have to fail and learn to climb the ladder of success. There is no one that does not fail in life. It’s okay to fail. But what’s not okay is when you fail you stay down. Who ever stays down is a looser. Winners never stay down every time them fail they get up, t his attitude makes them winner. When you are afraid to fail you are frozen and you are not relaxed. To perform better you must be relaxed.
At last but not the least, if you want to feel complete in life then give something back. Give something back to your family, your society and your country. Giving attitude makes you humble and you will grow in life. Giving back makes you a free man and really successful in life.
