We are given this life to live happily and joyfully. Our purpose of life is to do our best and help each other to grow together. Life is very beautiful who admires it and accepts the way it is. Some people enjoy the life and some people live life complaining. Those who accept the life and enjoy it gets more chance to be happy and enjoy. On the other hand who complains always gets more and more chance to complain. Their life become worst day by day. Some people live life very happily with limited resources where as some are very unhappy although having much wealth. Its strange but true. The root cause of their unhappiness is they compare others with themselves. When they find some one having much more than them they feel unhappy.
Always be happy what you have. Always we should focus our goal and our growth. If instead of focusing ourselves we focus others achievement we feel pain. If we compare others 20th step with your first step you will feel pain. Never ever compare yourself with any body. You do not know his story his struggle so how can you compare his present with your present. You can not compare his innerself with yourself.
Comparison leads to jealousy. Jealousy leads to anger and anger leads to hatred. If you will be captured by all these negatives your focus will shift from self development to other persons failure. You will always wish for that person’s failure. You will be filled with bitterness. That bitterness will burn you inside. You will be a different person with different attitude. You will never trust anybody. We will think everybody as your enemy. This attitude will bring you down in career, in relationship and everywhere. People will keep themselves away from you thinking that you are a very jealous and negative person. You will feel lonely.
As Bill gates said never compare yourself with anybody. If you do so, you are insulting yourself. We are all different and unique. You will never find a person like you on the earth. We all have different family background, different qualification different life style, different food, so how can we be compared with each other. If you compare you are the greatest fool on the earth.
Life is not a competition with others. In its truest sense it is a rivalry with ourselves. We should each day seek to break the record of our yesterday. We should seek each day to live stronger, better, truer lives; Each day to master some weakness of yesterday; each day to repair past fillies; each day to surpass ourselves. And this is but progress. Life is not a competition, life is about helping and inspiring others so we can each reach our potential. Life is not a competition but a decision to take. If you take life as a competition you will always feel like last, but if you take life as a decision or a choice you will be free to celebrate your small wins while you wait for the big win ahead which has always been your number one goal.
