Life :
Life is a cycle. Here nothing is permanent and it keeps on changing. Good days comes after bad days and bad days comes after good days. This cycle goes on in everybody’s life. No-one in this world can stay always happy or always sorrow in life. Its the nature which keeps changing. We are so much attached to the good days of life that we become panic in the thought of bad days. We are so afraid of the bad days that we can not enjoy our good days thinking if the bad days come what will happen. The simple rule should be try your best but prepare for the worst. If you are always ready what ever comes in life then your life will not be so much painful. You can overcome the bad days easily.
No-one likes the bad days in life. Whatever you do bad days will come in everybody’s life. There is no way to stop it from coming in your life. So it is better to learn the principle to stay strong and motivated during the hard days. No panic, no fear will help you to overcome these days in your life. The only way is keep your thoughts positive and motivate yourself. If you manage your thoughts in right ways and stay positive in negative or hard times of your life, you will be the winner at last.
Lets know what is thought process before going for positive and negative thoughts. A child has no thought process of his own. His thought process is developed by his surroundings like environment, school, education, system, college, friends, colleague , family and relatives. Our thought process depends on our up bringing. Some children got very nice family and environment. Their upbringing is too good that they develop the nature of protected, kind. Their vision, mission and objective is very clear. They want to do something big in life. These children become committed in relationships. On the other hand some children grow in a very bad atmosphere at home. They have seen fights in family and even saw separation of parents in family. Their thought process is very much affected by this type of environment. In their nature you can see anger, fear, hate and non committed in relationships. They are absolutely not kind and they want everything for them only. Because they have not gotten what they want in life.
It is clear that our environment always determine our upbringing, upbringing determine our thought process and ultimately build our beliefs or belief system. Gradually our thought process become negative and every where we see negative only. Unfortunately our society is very discouraging and its true. Our community never encourages us but always criticizes only. Many negative belief systems are inserted in our mind and gradually our life becomes too bad or negative. It is for those whose thought process has become negative. We all know you can not go to the past and change it. Only you can do is just delete the past from your memory. Just focus on today and try to make coming days better than the past. Below are few points to discuss so that you can make your thinking positive during your hard times.
1) Stop criticizing :
The more we criticize, the more we germinate negativity around us. When you criticize others you overlook his positive and always searches for some negative in him. The more negative you try to find in others the more negative you will find in yourself. These negativity will be stored in our subconscious mind. Whatever you do, speak, see or thinks it has direct impact on your subconscious mind. Try to find some positive in others and avoid criticism.
2) Start Appreciating:
Life has so much to offer to you each day, value and appreciate it. Try to appreciate people genuinely and good complements on their work. You should not be insecure of the other person’s talent rather take it as an inspiration. Try to find out what different thing he is doing to be best in his field. Take that inspiration and apply it in your field so that you will be master of your field. Never appreciate with the expectation that the other person will appreciate you too. Get inspired than be insecure. Always try to find out something positive in everyone rather than negativity. The more positivity you find the better you feel about yourself and you will feel relaxed and energetic. Always be grateful with what you have and never cry for what you do not have. If you see positive, talk positive and listen positive your life will change dramatically positive.
3) Release yourself from toxic environment:
It’s hard but important to grow in life. Stay away from the sarcastic people around you. Because these negative people will drain away your energy. They have nothing to do with your life just pull you back and convince you that you can not achieve your goal. Be deaf for their words. Stay away from all negative social media and groups. They will distract you from your goal. Let them go with peace because the more you hold them your life become more and more negative. Negative people will find only problems with everything. They have no solution.
4) Let go of Your past emotional baggage:
If u keep Carrying them around you shall never be able to move forward in life .The past emotional baggage’s will always remind you the pain. You will lose focus on the present start living in the past. Let me tell you there is nothing like past. Past does not exist at all. It’s only in your memory and there is no real existence of past in your life. Let them go out of your life because they are not important in your life now.
5) Read Books:
It is said that books are the best friend and best teacher of human. They always help is to understand ourselves and push us to learn and grow in life. Books will never hurt you and never disappoint you in life. Always you will learn something valuable for life. Books will be with you at every phase of your life like a best friend. The more good books you read you can learn many things and you can look this world in different angle. This world will appear you a very beautiful place. You will see only the good within others. Books make your life meaningful.
6) Become a Student of life:
Keep your eyes, ears open and keep learning from life each day. Learning attitude will help you grow in life. Every time try to learn something new in life. Learning never ends because lessons of life never ends. When you keep leaning new things it helps you grow in life and you leave your past behind. Your past has no power now to make you worry. If you are busy in learning you will not get time for worry, anxiety, fear and all such negative activities that make pain. Leaning helps making evolution in your life.
Conclusion:
Life is so precious. You should never waste it in thinking only. There are many chances now a days. Learn something new. Pursue your dreams. Do new courses and live your passion. Never sit idle and make your life hell. Enroll for something new each month so that you keep learning, growing and updating yourself. Your life is a story and you are the writer, try to make it an inspiring one. Life will appear the same way you will look at it. Life will give you the same what you give it. Always try to give what you want from life. Make your life meaningful and have a peaceful, blissful and beautiful life.
