Our world is like a theater and we are playing our roles here. Everyone is different from other and everyone has different character. In this world nobody is happy with his role and character. Always you look to other and think his life is better than yours. But reality is he thinks the same for you. This thinking makes everyone unhappy in this world. Comparing your life with others and comparing his asserts with yours leads to great disappointment in life. You can never know what you have if you always look to someone else ignoring yourself. Remember as we look to others and think they are happy and have all good things in life , like this you are other for someone else. Someone must be looking at you like you look at others.
There was a small kid who was always unhappy for his body color and his look. Once he saw a beautiful kid was taken by his servant in a wheel chair. He thought if i had that beauty and asked that kid to play with him. When he went near that kid to his surprise that kid had no legs and eyes. The kid was frightened and thought God is so kind to him although he did not give him beautiful body like that kid but has given legs to walk and eyes to see. He thanked to god. Really we should be happy and thankful what we have. Because many people do not have what we have.
If you do not happy with your life condition and complain always life becomes very miserable. Complain will never bring you a life you wish rather it destroys relation, health. Nobody likes a person who always complains about life and keep distance from him. If you look at mirror with a smile you will see a smiling face, like this you will see a crying sad face if you see the mirror with a crying face. Our society, family and personal life is a reflection of our life. Be happy with yourself, be satisfied with what you have, your family will be happy and there will be happiness in your society.
To be happy first try to see only the goodness in other person. There will be obstacles in like but you have to face these with a smile. Always count your blessing and never give attention to your sorrow. When you are fighting for what you deserve always accept what you have and be happy with it. Its better to be happy with your present and what you have now rather to cry over your past. You always look up and become unhappy, but you forget there are many people below you and your life is a dream for them. This mindset of looking down and be grateful will bring you success in life. In every situation mindset should be same whether its happiness and obstacle. There is only one way to get rid of worry and achieve peace and satisfaction in life, remember your blessings and happiness and forget what you lost in the past.