We all must have heard the quote that says “When you look for good in others, you discover the best in Yourself”. This phrase explains how a positive viewpoint toward others can lead to personal growth and self improvement.
We can understand this by three points one by one.
1-Shifting Focus to Positivity:
When you actively stay focus on the positive side of the people, your mind is gradually trained to be positive. When you focus goes to the kindness, talents or strength of other people you gradually attract the good nature and positivity in yourself. Because you know where your focus goes, energy flows. You gradually develop a positive personality and your focus will never go to the flaws or shortcomings of other people. This shift in mindset develop a sense of gratitude, understanding and compassion in your heart. Gradually you become a different person and you will be loved and respected by the people around you. In the mean time you will stop judging and criticizing people and become more Empathetic. This shift in your personality improves your relationships and overall outlook on life.
2-Reflection and Self-Growth:
The qualities we appreciate in other people more often reflect our own values and aspirations. When you see kindness in someone, it means you appreciate kindness. This kindness is within you that’s why it is reflected in you. By focusing on the good qualities of people, you unconsciously develop those good qualities within yourself. Your focus creates your ideal personality. This focus on the goodness of others encourages self-awareness, personal growth and emotional intelligence within yourself. This attitude helps you transform you a complete different person with a very strong positive mind. This personality help you increase your self-confidence and move forward in life.
3-Creating a Positive Cycle:
When you see the best in others you start giving them respect and your heart is filled with kindness. In the return you also get the same respect and kindness in their response. This positive cycle of giving respect and getting respect strengthen relationships and boosts confidence. Over time the more goodness you recognize in people the more same good qualities you develop within yourself. Ultimately you become a better ,happier and more fulfilled person in life.
Conclusion:
As we have discussed earlier where focus goes energy flows. So focus on goodness of people to attract good qualities within yourself. Good qualities are appreciated everywhere. We are here in this world to spread goodness and positivity around us. Lets appreciate only good qualities of each other to attract more goodness within ourselves and make this world a better place for everyone to live happily for ever.
