We all want to get success in life. We all want to live our dream life. We all want to have our dream home and dream car too. We all want more and more in life. But it’s not that easy and many of us even do not dare to dream too. Why? We all want that life, but one thing that stops us from our goal is fear of failure. Whether it is YouTube videos, blogs or speeches or advices of elders, all importance is given to success only. Failure is always seen in negative light. It is always told never fail and if he failed many people instead of encouraging started finding his faults. This attitude breaks a person from inside and he is afraid of failure very much. If failure is so much bad, then how the life of all successful persons are full in list of failures. Just think how behind every big success, there is always a big failure. If you study the biographies of all successful persons in the world you find one thing common. They all have a big list failures before achieving that big success in life. Yes it’s the failure which we always fear and try to avoid, but actually it gives the success.
Just see the irony that behind every success there is a lots of failure. On the other hand the major cause of suicide is failure in the examinations. In every hour one student commits suicide due to failure. Failure in business, failure in relationship, failure in academics is the major reason of depression. We are the root cause of all these. Because we always judge people by their profits, achievements, marks, position and wealth etc. We always give positive value to success, but always give negative value to failure. We always treat failure in a very wrong way. We always congratulate on success but stay away from failure. We gather to celebrate success but keep failure alone. But actually opposite should be done. Failure needs much care and support so that the person can stand again.
Always we give extra value to success but on the other hand think failure is the end of life. We never think there can be a new beginning after that failure. In our body every day millions of old cells die and new cells born. It keeps the balance of our body. If the balance is broken and no cell will die then the number of cells increasing may cause cancer in our body. In nature every animal, plant, everything is a balance of success and failure. Both are needed for growth and to move forward in life. If failure is so important, then why do we fear to fail and afraid of taking risk in life. We always postpone our dreams due the fear of failure. We become hopeless and angry on ourselves due to this fear of failure.
We should give positive value to failure too. If anybody dare do something and failed, if anybody took risk to do something different but failed must be given respect as the successful man gets. By this we can create a risk taking culture. Then only many people will dare to do something different in life. Many will be encouraged to follow their dreams and many more inventions will come forward. Total human being will be benefited ,motivated and grow altogether. Good and bad are part of life. Like if anyone gains then there must be someone some where loses. It’s the nature game to balance. We can not expect everything good to happen according to our will. This will never happen. But it is very bad if you wait all the signal light to turn red to cross the road. In nature every season has it’s importance. One season is good for you on the other hand other seasons not. But you have to face all seasons to grow in life. Like this success and failure has their importance in life and nothing is good or bad about it.
Both success and failure are necessary in life. Balance in both success and failure is necessary. Success gives the result of our efforts but failure shows you your true power. Failure let you know how much you have done and how much you have to do. Failure gives you satisfaction that you have tried something new. Failure makes you realize your power and your true potential. Failure gives you a second chance to star in a new way, but this time not from zero but with experience. Success comes from experiences and experiences comes from failure. Always value your efforts and performance first. As you value your success value your failure too. Try to celebrate your failure too as you celebrate your success. Then you will see there is no reason to be unhappy. Life will be full of celebration. If any body fails in business respect him that he took risk in life. If anybody failed in performance respect him that he took participation in that event. If you tried and fail ,you are ahead of those many people who don’t even try. If will face many failure on the way of your goal. But you should feel proud that you are walking towards your goals and not standing at one place fearing failure. As we all know success is not final, failure is not fatal and it is the courage to continue that counts. The more you fail and recover the more you improve. Failure is a part of life. If you never fail, you will never learn and if you never learn you will never grow. Because fear kills more dreams than failure ever will.
