Everyone in life faces bad times sometimes. You can not expect always good times in life. Because life is a cycle of even and odds. When life gives you what you want we say it good times and when our expectations are not fulfilled we become upset and say it’s bad time. But actually time remains the same. There is no bad or good times in life. It depends on our expectations whether it’s good or bad.

         Sometimes we face problems in life. That problems are so hard that it breaks you and make you weak. You can not find a way to get out of it. You become too worry and become angry on yourself even you hate yourself. You wonder why all these are happening to me? Sometimes our situation becomes so bad that we think we can not come out of it. You loose all your hope and life becomes miserable. In life we only focus that one problem and forget all that things we have. We always focus on sorrow not pleasure, focus on sadness not happiness, focus on failure not the rewards. Human nature is such we always remember the bad rather than the good one. You will forget the person who praised you after some days but will never forget that person who insulted you. Our focus goes always towards the negatives of life. We forget the blessings always.

       Let me explain through a story. There was a king somewhere. He had a big garden with full of fruits. There was a Gardner who was taking care of that garden. His duty was to take fresh fruits to the king every morning. Once he brought ripen grapes to the king and placed it as usual and sat at the corner of the room as usual. At that time king was unmindful and worry in some thoughts. The king was eating the grapes and throwing one grape aiming to the head of the Gardner. Every time the grape hit that person he was saying today is a great day God is too kind to me. After some time the king realized what is happening. He asked that man why are you thanking to god when the grape hit you. He said in the garden there were ripen mango, coconut too. But in my mind only grapes came to bring. If i had brought that big fruits what would have happen to me. That’s why i was thanking god.

       This story is very much related to our life. Sometimes small problems come to your life to protect you from the big one. But at that time we could not understand what’s happening. If you think deeply you will realize how you have been protected from such huge problems. The problems you are facing now is making you strong for the future. In future it’s importance is understood. That time you realize if that time that thing would not have happen to me i would not be the person i am right now. We don’t like problems in life, but that problems make your life the greatest. It’s not necessary that what we love is good for us and what we don’t like is bad for us. Remember bitter medicines are good for your body whether you like it’s taste or not. So my dear friends when ever you face problems in life always think the problem has come to protect you from something big going to happen in your life.